Empty Nesting

 How do you switch from parenting them full time to letting go?  How do you let go?

Our daughter graduated college last summer and moved to Chicago to start her career and life as an adult.  When she was in college, we always texted and checked in, sent good morning texts, how was your day texts. good night texts etc.  Now that she is living on her own, I am not sure how often is overbearing and how often is not enough!  I'm so confused!

I mean she does a great job of keeping in touch with us and texting us about her day and such.  But as a mom, how often is too often for me to check in? I don't want her to feel like I am being a helicopter mom, but I also don't want her to think I am not involved, not interested or being overbearing!  

She doesn't seem to be struggling with it, but I am!

XOXO

Marla

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